Es Domingo y Divorce regresa en HBO

Hoy es Domingo y para mi significa televisión time. Ahora mismo mi serie favorita Divorce regresa con su segunda temporada. ¿Por que me gusta la serie? Por que los personajes son excelentes. El elenco es de usted y tenga. La serie producida por uno de mis iconos de la televisión Sarah Jessica Parker, cuenta la historia de una pareja atravesando un divorcio.

Cuando vi el anuncio de la serie en su primera temporada, no me llamó la atención por el titulo. Pensé que era otra seria glamorizando el divorcio. Pero decidí darle un chance por que amo a SJP y que creen, la serie es excelente. Les soy sincera cuando e tenido invitación a eventos lo pienso, y ahora mas que estoy trabajando, sin embargo, tan pronto me llegó una invitación para conocer a Sarah y ver un episodio de la segunda temporada, no lo pensé ni por un micro segundo.

Durante el evento con The Moms, tuvimos la oportunidad de tener una conversación con SJP sobre el programa. Al momento de poder hacerle una pregunta la mía fue sencilla:

Yo: en este segunda temporada, ¿nos contarán que fue lo que sucedió antes de la serie que los llevó al divorcio?

SJP: Si yo tuviese la opción de hacerlo nuevamente, añadiría esa parte de la historia en esta segunda temporada. Pero no lo añadimos. Si puedo decir que a medida que van pasando los episodios la audiencia tiene la oportunidad de ver el amor que hay entre ellos. Si yo pudiese, añadiría un enlace en la parte de abajo para que busquen mas información.

Tengo que decir que el primer episodio de la segunda temporada, que estrena hoy Domingo, me dejó queriendo mas. Esta familia es realmente familiar, me refiero, a que es como cualquiera de nosotros. Creo que cualquiera, aunque no esté divorciado, puede encontrar algo que lo identifica en el personaje de SJP. La mama que trabaja fuera del hogar, la mama insegura, la mujer empresaria buscando oportunidades, la mujer que busca amor…

Si no la han visto créanme vale la pena hecharle un vistazo. Además es un programa que se puede disfrutar en pareja, ya que los hombres también se pueden sentir identificados con el personaje de Robert (Thomas Haden Church).

Debo añadir que Sarah Jessica Parker es la celebridad mas increíble que e tenido el placer de conocer en estos 4 años. Es una persona con una emoción, completamente entregada a su audiencia y sencilla. Su ternura al saludar a las personas que ya conocía, su dedicación a constar nuestras preguntas y tener una conversación real, me dejó mas encantada de este ser que desde que era adolescente admiraba.

Así que hoy, busquen su copita de vino, cerveza, taza de café y a sentarse a disfrutar de este programa. El episodio de hoy los va a hacer reír y posiblemente llorar.

Gracias a The Moms por otro evento y oportunidad increíble. La realidad que me siento como en un episodio de esos que hicieron a SJP un icono de la televisión.

Aquí con SJP y mi compañera Nicole de BronxMama

A look back at 2017

Like every year, I look back at our year and mostly write everything down so the kids have something to look back at… This year SUCKED THE LIFE OUT OF ME. I can’t even explain the emotional rollercoaster that this year put our family through. Usually I go through the months so here it goes….

January: We went on our first ski trip together and it was soooo much fun. We went to Camelback Resort. It was really cool to see how much the kids loved being in the snow and really wanted to be in the snow. And Glenn turned 5… My survivor turned 5. Which is not a big number but it’s so significant in his life as a cancer survivor.

February: Gavin discovered Broadway. In a special date we went to see the School of Rock musical and he enjoyed it way more than I thought he ever would. I also started my ‘weight loss journey’ by eliminating sugar from my life.

March: March was a lot of fun. We went to a lot of events. Nintendo, The Moms, Liberty Science Center, Paw Patrol Live! The kids met Danica McKellar at the Math Museum. And I was on the Dr. Oz show for the second time! Honestly I can’t even really believe it myself. We also celebrated Glenns’ 5th and Graces’ 3rd birthday together. We visited the Oculus for the first time and for some reason my transformation started. Something was different.

April: Oh April you were everything. I started focusing more on me. How I dressed, how I presented myself. I started putting more time into how I felt. I was starting to see the changes in my body from eliminating the sugar back in February. And like we’re cray cray drove to Florida for our family trip. Not only were we headed to Disney but we were headed to our first ever Star Wars Celebration. This trip was really special for many reasons. One, my mom tagged along with us. Second, we stayed at the hotel my mom used to work with when we lived in Florida back in the 80’s and across from our old apartment. How cool is that? We also visited Charleston, South Carolina which is absolutely beautiful. Star Wars Celebration is whole post on its own. It was beyond and experience and Disney World was just as spectacular as always. I finally drank around the world during Epcot’s Flower and Garden Festival, which is just my favorite. We also visited Legoland Florida for the first time. This park is just beautiful. It was so much fun. Oh and I met Six from Blossom!

May: Was full of events. Dunkin Donuts, Consumer Reports, Powermom Summit, Cars, Nintendo, Fleet Week, NY Baby Show, Orgullosa, Nissan. Just mentioning all of these made me exhausted. These events were lots of fun but lots of work. I have to say my favorite was probably Fleet Week event. Thanks to my friend George Torres from Sofrito for Your Soul, who invited me to build bikes with Toyota for military families. I can’t explain to you how it felt to be able to spend that time doing something for the men and women who serve us.

June: JUNE WAS EPIC. Mostly because it was my 35th birthday and I traveled twice, by myself. I went on my first moms trip to Foxwoods. We drank, we shopped, we gambled, and most importantly, we expanded our mom friendship beyond playdates and Target runs. We confirmed that we actually like each other sans kids! My second trip was to BlogHer in Florida. I had so many plans for this weekend including going to Disney, but the whole week just went completely different and I don’t regret it one bit. I had an awesome time with my Puerto Rican girls. Eat real good food, but also did yoga twice! Also made some new friends. The biggest thing that happened in June, I posted a picture of me in a bikini on social media. OMG. And so my 35th year of like started amazingly. Confident and happy. I was also invited to do a live broadcast interview for Ser Padres about traveling with kids. Such an honor.

July: Sooooo many events. Sooo many events. Parents are people too, Blogger Bash amongst others. Highlight? Meeting Kandi Burruss, who is a talented singer but for me is a Real Housewives of Atlanta (yes, guilty pleasure). We went on our annual camping trip with my parents. This year was a lot of fun because the kids were really into it. We also celebrated 4th of July with my parents in Virginia. So, remember that interview I did back in June with Ser Padres? I manifested a trip I didn’t even know I was going to make, but well I changed plans from Puerto Rico to Texas. Without much thinking started to drive from NYC to VA to Ft. Worth. I DROVE THE WHOLE WAY. I can’t even explain to you what it felt to get there. I just cried. I hugged my sister and cried. This trip is also where everything changed.

August: We were still in Texas, having a wonderful time with the family when the dreaded accident of our nightmares happened. Glenn drowned and I thought he was gone. It’s a miracle he is with us. If you want to read about it here. And I can’t say how grateful and blessed I feel about having him with us, but it also rocked me and depression, well you know. The rest of August went something like this: eating, crying, more eating more crying. The guilt was real is STILL real. We spent a lot of time together as a family enjoying each other. On a happier note, he was also featured on Time Out NY Kids magazine for their back to school article. With a video online also! Gavin turned 7. He’s a kid. Like a real kid. Not a cute baby or toddler or preschooler.

September: MY LAST BABY IS GOING TO SCHOOL! How and when the heck did this happen? Like seriously! There was another trip to Virginia and then another emotional hit as hurricane Maria hit my island, my home. Destroying whatever was in its path, leaving the island in the dark. Not being able to communicate with the family was terrible. To this day there are still many families in the dark with no water. I started traveling to Virginia to volunteer to send aid to the Island.

October: More trips to Virginia working and working. I also started working on our house. Painting, fixing things, decorating. It had been neglected for so long. I also had the honor of attending Operation Shower, which showers military families who are expecting. A bigger honor went to my dad who was recognized by the Points of Light organization for his volunteering and commitment to Puerto Rico. He was recognized in front of 5 presidents! Halloween was awesome- Star Wars!

Centro de recolección Unidos por Puerto Rico DMV

November: EVENTS, EVENTS, EVENTS. PlayFair, Momtrends, Royal Caribbean, Santa Claus. And the most memorable memory, cutting down our Christmas Tree for the first time. November was also the mark of 5 yrs of Glenns’s diagnosis and surgery, so we had a lot to celebrate and be thankful for.

December: I have to say, I’ve been so exhausted. I really tried to just soak up the time with the kids. Really taking care of myself and trying to get out of the funk. Even though I didn’t want to drive again (can you blame me?) Decided to take a trip to see my sister and spend Christmas together. And I have to say it was the BEST Christmas we’ve had in a while. All the kids were together and we were all together. 17 PEOPLE (7 of them kids), 6 dogs, 2 cats and lots of coffee.

This year has been beyond exhausting. Emotionally, physically, everything. This post was exhausting to write. And usually I’m scared- terrified of change, but I am looking forward to 2018. I welcome it with a lot of excitement. Blessed beyond belief. Glass and heart always full.

If you made it this far and didn’t fall asleep tell me, what are you looking forward in this new year?

Mis favoritos durante los tiempos difíciles

En estos tiempos difíciles que pasamos como pueblo, me pongo a pensar en como nos cuidamos. Aunque suena bien insignificante es bien IMPORTANTE dedicarse un poco de tiempo para recargar energías. Aquí una pequeña reseña de algunos productos que han convertido en favoritos para mi durante estos meses de bastante carga emocional y física.

    1. Mi reloj Armitron: Lo mencioné en Instagram hace varios días, este reloj a sido de suma importancia durante estos meses. ¿Por qué? Por que la realidad no paso tanto tiempo en el celular, por lo tanto a sido la forma mas confiable de saber que hora es. El reloj utiliza la energía solar para cargar la batería. Y pues tiene bastante estilo para cualquier “outfit”.

I was supposed to work on a mom essential fall list. Amongst those items parents should have I wanted to include @armitronwatches because as parents we rely to much on our phones to know what time it is and when we have to do things. While working on that Irma happened and then Maria. The truth is I literally forgot everything I had to do and working for Puerto Rico has been my job for the last month and a half. Funny thing is that if it wasn’t for this watch I would have no idea what time it is. While I’ve been at the collection center, except for a few IG stories, I don’t touch my phone at all. And where the center is there’s no wall clock so I’ve been depending on the watch 100%. I’m surprised how many people have stopped wearing watches and have started asking the time! This specific Armitron model is part of their Adventure line and it’s solar, so I don’t even have to worry about the battery. And seriously guys, think about how crazy. I specifically asked to review this watch before the hurricane and then I’ve been working on relief efforts with a watch that is powered by the sun. It makes me think of all the people in Puerto Rico who still have no power and it makes the drive from NYC to VA worth it. Plus, I’ve been wearing a “uniform” so the watch gives me a little bit of style while boxing up goods. This is my 4th Armitron watch and probably my favorite! #onewatchmanyfaces #style #ad

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2. Ipsy Glam Bag: Ok, puede ser que suene súper estúpido, pero la realidad es que cuando veo la bolsita rosa en el buzón me emociono! Es algo que me alegra el día ya que me encantan los productos de maquillaje y belleza. Usualmente comparto lo que me llega por Facebook Live, pero la realidad no me e conectado mucho.

Ispy de Septiembre

3. Booties: Ustedes saben que vivo en mis tenis Converse. Pero desde que alguien me confundió con una chica de escuela superior me dio cosita y fui y me compré varios pares de botines. Estos botines elevan mi estilo un chin sin sacrificar la comodidad. Y además son perfectos para el otoño. Aunque la realidad no hemos tenido temperaturas otoñales.

Estas botas son de JCPenney. Cómodas y buen precio!

4. Mi Usana probiótico: Con toda la porquería que e comido en todos estos meses, el probiótíco a sido esencial ayudándome a mantenerme regular y no tan hinchada. Es la diferencia en mi cara ya que la realidad no tomo tanta agua como debo. Gracias al probiótico me e mantenido en mi peso regular. Obvio quisiera bajar de peso, pero llevo viajando literalmente 4 meses así que a sido difícil mantener una dieta regular saludable.

5. Hero Clean: La realidad no e estado en casa mucho. La limpieza a pasado a segundo y tercer plano, pero cuando decido limpiar e estado utilizando Hero Clean. Estos productos han sido creados con propiedades que se usan en el campo militar, por lo tanto son potentes. Todos saben que me gusta tener productos naturales cuando se trata de limpieza y eso, pero en estos momentos lo que quiero es que sea efectivo. El liquido de fregar a sido mi favorito. Honestamente creo que es el único que utilizaré de ahora en adelante. Me encanta como corta la grasa, así reduciendo mi tiempo de fregadera. Y más que cualquier otra cosa, la compañía apoya a los veteranos y está hecho en Estados Unidos.

6. Café: ¿Necesito explicar esto?


7. Hamilton CD: Pasamos tanto tiempo en el carro, que siento vivo mas en el carro que en mi casa. La música es esencial para mi. Llevamos como 3 meses que solo se escucha el soundtrack del musical de Broadway. Créanme que quedé en shock cuando mis hijos dijeron que les gustaba. Por lo tanto me encanta que tiene un elemento educativo. Lo chicos me hacen mil preguntas sobre la historia de Alexander Hamilton y yo encantada utilizo el momento para educar.

Creo que lo dejo hasta aquí por ahora, pero tengo más para compartirles sobre mis productos favoritos durante estos meses que han sido de lo peor. Recuerden que es súper importante ocuparse de misma para poder ocuparse de los demás.

Want to help Puerto Ricans?

Here are some ideas on what you can do to help rebuild and help Puerto Rico from the mainland. By the way all these things can also be done for Mexico or even Florida or any other area that has gone through a disaster.

  1. Volunteer: There are many ways you can volunteer. Even children can be a part of volunteering. What do volunteers do exactly? They can help sort items at collection centers, they can help answer phones, help with donation drives. There are so many things that need doing. Even clean up.
  2. Donate money: Money will always be needed. To buy supplies or even for shipping of goods. Make sure when you donate, you find an organization where proceeds go completely to the people and don’t get watered down by administration costs of said organization.
  3. Donate goods: And please DON’T DONATE CLOTHES. The most wanted items during a catastrophe are water, food, medication, batteries, flashlights. And if you do want to donate clothes, make sure is clothes that you would wear. Not your rejects and under no circumstances should you donate used underwear. It’s just gross and well most of the time it gets thrown out at collection centers and not sent anyways.
  4. Use your resources: Social media can be amazing to create awareness or get your friends to pitch in to your cause.
  5. Stay informed: During hurricane Irma and Maria a lot of friends were posting on social media information of what was going on. The problem was that information was changing almost every three hours. So that old information kept getting recycled when it was no longer accurate.
  6. Ask: If you know anyone affected or who you think is more informed ask how to help. I have friends who know friends who know friends- how have they helped? They as the friend of the friend of the friend if they can help. And believe it or not that is a form of helping.
  7. Emotional support: you can help people affected by the disaster emotionally supporting them online or in person.
  8. Be a point of contact: During Maria, I was a point of contact of a few of my friends. I was calling their families from the Island to the states and vise versa. It was very rewarding to connect families.

I hope this helps in any way. I know there is much to be done and certainly there is a big need for help. If you find it in your heart to help the people of Puerto Rico or Mexico let me know. We are on a mission to build back the island. Even from afar.

Leave a comment of ways you’ve helped your community during trying times.


El primer día de soledad

Uff, ahora sí. Ahora sí. Ahora sí. Estoy solita y no sé ni como sentirme. Mi princesa comenzó en el colegio a tiempo completo. Hoy Lunes es mi primer día sola en casa. Y estoy como gallina que no tiene cabeza. A pesar de que tengo una lista de cosas que hacer: recoger, limpiar, trabajar en el sitio web, ver tele, dormir, lavar ropa, no sé que hacer. Por que de ahora en adelante la vida no es la misma. Ya no tengo excusa para hacer cosas durante el día. Ya no tengo quien me acompañe (los que me conocen saben que odio la soledad), pero lo más doloroso es el cambio. NO ME GUSTAN LOS CAMBIOS. Pensar que ya mis niños poco a poco me van necesitando menos. Ahora el tiempo pasa mas rápido, en un abrir y cerrar de ojos ya estarán aplicando a universidades…

¿DRAMÁTICA? Un poco. Pero es la realidad. El tiempo no pasa en vano y aunque aveces miro a mi esposo y me siento como si todavía vivimos en nuestros 20s’ la realidad es que ya estamos más cerca de los 40s’. Mis hijos son lo más que me llena en la vida y estar sin ellos es super doloroso. Aunque la realidad es que después de este verano. Este verano me abrió los ojos de tantas formas. (Si quieres leer lo que sucedió, aquí te comparto el enlace) Lo primero es que no podemos controlar nada de lo que pasa. Aveces queremos controlarlo todo y es imposible. No importa cuan preparados estemos para una cosa u otra siempre hay algo que sale en descontrol. O una “pajita en la leche” como dicen en Puerto Rico. Y no podemos hacer nada al respecto, solo vivir. Debo admitir que a pesar de lo que pasó con mi hijo, que casi pierde la vida, estoy feliz que esté de regreso en el salón de clases. ¿Por que? Por que por lo menos se que por 7 horas va a estar en un escritorio sentado aprendiendo y no tratando de desafiar la suerte. Creo que también para Grace es super bueno que vaya y aprenda a socializar con nuevas personitas. Ella es bien apegada a sus hermanos por que es con quien único comparte. Para los niños a esa edad es super importante socializar. Su pre-escolar es basado en juegos y gracias a Dios tiene la misma maestra que tuvieron sus hermanos, por lo tanto aunque se quedó atacada llorando, se que está en buenas manos. Y se que cuando termine el año va a querer volver.


No miento, estos momentos de soledad hacen que mi utero duela. Las ganas de tener otro bebé no se van, pero creo que nuestra familia está completa por ahora. Y creo que me debo tiempo a mi. A ponerme al día, a arreglar mi hogar y a atender a mi esposo. Tengo muchos proyectos que quiero completar y ahora es el momento perfecto para dedicarme a eso.

Bueno con eso las dejo. Se que es un blah blah blah, pero quería escribir lo que siento en estos momentos.

Por favor, cuentenme, ¿que hacen cuando hay cambios significativos en sus vidas?


Almost lost my warrior…

DISCLAIMER: I hold myself 100% responsible for what happened. My kids were not unsupervised.

This summer, my family and I decided to undertake the longest road trip to date: Fort Worth, Texas. Why? To visit family whom moved there recently. All of the kids were amazing. Minimal bathroom and food breaks, very little complaining, and a beautiful drive through 7 states. All without a rear entertainment system.

After 29 hours, we finally arrived. The kids were so excited to see their cousins. They hadn’t seen each other in a whole year. It was within minutes of walking inside the house that my kids realized there was a pool. If you know me, or follow me on social, you know my biggest fear is of kids and water. I constantly think about the facts: drowning is the second cause of death in children 1-14 in the US. (, boys are more likely to drown than girls because of their behavior, etc. Stuff you hear in the news during the summer time. But as a good swimmer myself, and with a house full of competent swimmers I felt comfortable with the kids to go in the water (I went in too). After the drive it felt amazing. They have been in several pools before and have taken some swimming lessons, and did not hesitate to use some of what they have learned. We arrived Sunday, and by Wednesday my wild middle child was jumping into the “big pool”. My oldest is way more cautious so he decided to make the “little pool” his own. After our trips to the Stockyards, the Fort Worth Zoo, and the Water Gardens, we fought the intense Texas heat in the pool every day.

The day before we left we decided to just have a family BBQ. One of my brothers had flown in and my other brother was arriving that evening. We all had breakfast and an hour later the kids were in the pool, all of them with flotation devices. I was sitting on the edge taking pictures and just being the lifeguard. Glenn had asked me to go into the pool with him. I told him “ok, but I have to put my bathing suit on, just wait for me.” In the pool, the kids were with my brother, his girlfriend, and my sister. After I changed, I went in the kitchen to talk to my mom, which by the way, is about 6 feet from the edge of the pool. That’s when someone yelled “call 911!”

MY HEART STOPPED. When I looked up, I saw my brother carrying Glenn’s lifeless body. He was gone. In my heart I felt it. I just screamed. I grabbed my phone and tried to dial 911. I couldn’t get the numbers right I was shaking so badly. I didn’t understand because I had been trained for this. As a Girl Scout, in the Coast Guard, and as an NYC Emergency Response Team Member, I should have been able to handle this, but I just could not focus. My brother’s girlfriend took over got a 911 operator. No one was letting me get near him. My brother and my dad were assessing the situation when my sister just yelled “start CPR!” I don’t remember how much time he was gone, or how many compressions were done. All of a sudden he was up and started throwing up blood. When he woke up my family let me hold him. He had soiled his bathing suit, and as I finished changing him the paramedics arrived. He was awake, but he was barely breathing on his own.

The drive to the hospital was about 40 minutes but it felt like a lifetime. Thank God he was awake the whole time. We got to Cook’s Children Hospital in Dallas, and he threw up again, probably 3 days’ worth of food. They performed X-Rays and all the blood tests known to man. The doctor came to me and the first thing he said was, “we’re going to move him to the PICU and put him on a breathing machine. If the breathing machine doesn’t help, we’re going to have to intubate him.” They were most worried about a possible pneumonia. At this point I told my sister she had to call my husband. He needed to fly in. He didn’t get home in time to catch any of the Friday night flights out, so he had to wait until the next day to come in. He called me because he wanted to see him. I did not want that. Glenn still hadn’t been awake since the ambulance and was covered in medical equipment. But he insisted, so we Facetime from Glenn’s bed that evening. When he finally saw him we couldn’t help crying together.

I wasn’t sure what his outcome would be. He was put on the C-Pap machine Friday around 2 pm. All he did was sleep. Late Friday night, he woke up for a minute, ask to vomit, and go back to sleep. When they came to check him on Saturday (around 4am), he asked to go pee by himself (they had put diapers on him but he refused to use them). This was HUGE. A sign that there wasn’t neurological damage. Around 6am when he woke up and I asked him if he wanted to play Super Mario Run on my cell phone. He said “YES”. He tried, but with all the monitors connected to him he couldn’t feel comfortable and quit and went back to sleep. Around 9am he asked to have some water. Unfortunately, they couldn’t give him water yet. The staff did not want him to ingest anything until they felt everything was out of his system. However, the nurse and the respiratory therapy technician decided to keep the mask off for a little bit and see how he did, since his oxygen had been stable the whole night.

By Saturday afternoon they decided to move him to a regular room. In no time he was playing his Nintendo Switch and getting mad at the doctors who interrupted him. In one instance the doctor was talking to him and we told him “Glenn, pay attention. Pause the game so you can hear the doctor.” What did he say? “I don’t know how to pause the game!” TOTAL LIE. Already back to being his video gaming self! Now he was able to get food and go to the play room. Saturday evening my husband got to the hospital and stayed with him. By Sunday morning this kid was back to himself. He only complained about his jaw hurting and his loose tooth.

The rest of the family came to visit, and that was so special for him. He played with them in the awesome play room (one of Cook’s Children’s Hospital many wonderful features). He colored with his cousins, raced hot wheels with his brother, and laughed with his sister. His face was swollen and he looked older (almost like an old man), and despite the fun he had with family, he still seemed a little sad. When I asked him if he knew what happened: he said, he jumped and lost his floatie. He was trying to crawl in the bottom of the pool to the stairs. That’s the last he remembers. The doctor who did checks on him saw my face and felt my fear, and he proceeded to tell me “this happens to the best of us. My son fell of the pier at the lake with no floatation device right in front of my face. He also nearly drowned.” It reinforced how common these events are.

Sunday he was discharged. The swelling had gone down, and the youthfulness had returned. He walked out the pediatric ward singing R. Kelly’s “I believe I can fly”. NO JOKE. He had no shoes, a stethoscope that the doctor gifted him, and a shirt that said THE DUDE. As soon as we got to the house, he wanted to show my husband the pool and go back in with him. I wasn’t ready for that, but because I didn’t want him to suffer a form of PTSD I let him put his feet in the water. I sat next to him and did the same thing. This whole time I felt my heart was still. And just like that my son went back to normal, even after nearly losing his life.

For me, there is no going back to normal. I have nightmares every day. I relive the moment every day. I blame myself every day. Why didn’t I stay outside and just lifeguard? Why didn’t I go in the pool with them in the first place? Why didn’t I ask any adult to keep an eye on him because this child is seriously fearless? Why didn’t I respond with my training? Why? Why? Why? I don’t know any of these answers. I probably will never know and I most likely will need therapy to get over this, because I am the safety mom. I am the mom who has avoided every pool birthday party, every pool playdate. I am the mom that still has gates in the house even though Grace is about to be 4. I am the mom that has her 7 year old, 72lbs son in a 5 point harness car seat. This wasn’t supposed to happen on my watch. This wasn’t supposed to happen to us.

But Glenn is something else. This child has a special light. He has fought for his life twice in his 5 years of life, first with cancer, now this. He is fearless and brave, a warrior and a survivor. And maybe there is a reason this happened to him. Maybe God is preparing him for his future. God is preparing us for when he’s jumping of an airplane or swimming with sharks. This is him. I don’t think many other kids would have survived this and responded the way he did.

This is our story but I hope you take with you these lessons:

-NEVER SAY THIS WILL NOT HAPPEN TO ME. The truth is accidents happen. It will not matter if your child can swim or they are supervised. Things go wrong and you have to be prepared.

-Always have someone who is first aid/CPR certified when around kids. THANK God most of my family is trained and were able to save his life.

-When you travel lookup the hospitals in the area. I HAD NEVER EVER THOUGHT ABOUT THIS. When the ambulance got there and asked me what hospital to take him to I had no idea. My sister had only been living there a year so we were clueless.

-Trust your gut. I was just talking about my fear of kids and water a week before. I always had that gut feeling. Maybe from my time in the Coast Guard, maybe because water is so potentially dangerous.

-Be aware of who your kids are. I trusted my kid. And I failed. Because I’m aware of Glenn’s’ personality and I should’ve insisted on him waiting for me.

Glenn is fine now, and everything is seemingly back to normal. He’s still active and fun loving, and shows no adverse effects to what happened. He’s not afraid of the water, or any other craziness for them matter. All this even being well aware of how scary things could have become.

This is why I have been inactive on social media, and just with people in general. I needed time. Time to think, time with the kids, and time to process, to make sure this does not happen again. Please be safe.

Mis preferidos del NY Baby Show!

Esta reseña es auspiciada por Momtrends. Todas las opiniones y fotografías son mías. 

El New York Baby Show es una exposición anual donde madres embarazadas y nuevos padres pueden conocer sobre nuevos productos para sus niños. Todos los años tengo la oportunidad de trabajar junto a Momtrends, quienes se encargan de crear un lugar especial para los bloggers e inspirarnos a buscar nuestros productos favoritos de la exposición. Mis favoritos este año son bien diferentes a los años anteriores. Mi hija está mas grande y ya no usa pañales, por lo tanto no cargamos con una bolsa de pañales y estamos utilizando el coche muy poco. Los productos que mas me gustaron, son naturales y definitivamente son eco-amigables.

  1. Jack n’ Jill Natural: Esta compañía Australiana tiene varios productos que me encantaron. Desde la pasta de diente para los niños hasta la crema de Lavanda para toda la familia. Los productos son naturales y huelen riquísimo. También tienen unos muñequitos donde los niños pueden poner los dientes que se le caen. Me gusto mucho que los productos son naturales. La compañía lleva mas de 20 años creando productos, pero recientemente entraron al mercado Norteamericano. Las pastas de dientes son seguras para niños pequeños y no contienen aditivos peligrosos ni químicos demás.
  2. Babyganics Swim Pants: Cuando piensas en productos de bebé nunca se piensa en productos que sean multi-uso. Esa siempre a sido una de mis metas al comprar productos. Me gusta que tengan mas de un uso o propósito. Este es el caso de los pañales para nadar de Babyganics. Estos pañales tienen una área donde indica el tiempo que el niño tiene con el protector solar y cuando hay que aplicarle mas protección. Osea, es una idea GENIAL. Por que muchas veces se nos olvida re-aplicar, o nos dejamos llevar por el sol o el numero en la botella del bloqueador solar. Pero con estos pañales, tenemos un recordatorio para esos momentos. La verdad quedé super sorprendida y espero que mas productos lleguen al mercado con esta tecnología. Especialmente ahora para la temporada de verano.
  3. Anne Geddes Paint: Cuando  vi esto me emocioné. Soy fanática de Anne Geddes desde hace mucho tiempo. Su nuevo proyecto, además de un libro nuevo, es una colección de pinturas para la casa. Las pinturas son seguras para los cuartos de bebé ya que no tienen tóxicos y están hechas a base de agua con ingredientes naturales. Lo mejor es que los colores de la colección ayudan al desarrollo de los bebes. La colección tiene colores en tonos pasteles incluyendo rosa, verde, azul, crema, amarillo entre otros. Me llamó la atención la dedicación de Anne personalmente a escoger los colores que son mas beneficiosos para el desarrollo de los bebés.  NYBABYSHOW

Dos productos mas que me gustaron y llamaron mucho la atención fueron el asiento protector para muñecas de Joovy. ¿Por qué me llamó la atención? Por que este asiento para muñecas fue examinado como un asiento regular de niños. El car seat está “crash tested”. Eso me gustó por que es una tremenda forma de educar a los niños en cuanto a la seguridad en el automóvil. El otro producto que me dejó loca, es una bolsa reusable de una compañía que se llama Greentom. Esta compañía Holandesa construye coches y bolsos de botellas de agua recicladas. ¡Y los coches están BELLOS!

Como pueden ver el NY Baby Show siempre trae algo nuevo al mercado. Me encanta la oportunidad de estar al tanto de los productos nuevos para nuestros niños. El NY Baby Show se lleva a cabo todos los años en la ciudad de Nueva York.

Planeando el futuro con NY529

Los beneficios de NY529

Esta entrada es auspiciada por Momtrends. Todas las opiniones y fotografías son de mi propiedad.

Una de las preocupaciones de todos los padres al tener hijos es el costo de la educación universitaria. En muchos países hay educación universitaria gratuita pero en Estados Unidos es uno de los gastos más grandes de una familia. Una carrera universitaria en una universidad de Nueva York puede costar $300,000 si a eso le añadimos que una familia promedio hoy en día tiene 3 hijos, costaría casi un millón de dólares mandar a esos tres hijos a la universidad. Cuando mis hijos nacieron su abuela les regaló una cuanta de NY529. Les juro que hasta el Sábado pasado no sabía realmente lo que era.

Gracias a Momtrends tuvimos la oportunidad de aprender lo que es NY529. Para empezar, les explico que NY529 es una cuenta donde los padres pueden ahorrar dinero para la universidad. Lo más que me llamó la atención es que ese dinero que sea ahorra en la cuenta, aunque sea en NY se puede usar en cualquier estado. Entre otras de las cosas que aprendí sobre el programa es que cualquier persona puede abrir y depositar dinero en la cuenta. Por ejemplo las cuentas de mis chicos las abrió su abuela, pero yo puedo depositar dinero, y también puedo compartir la cuenta con la familia, para que todos le puedan depositar dinero para su cumpleaños o fiestas especiales. No solo eso, el dinero puede ser usado por el niño o sus hermanos ya que las cuentas se pueden pasar a otros miembros de la familia. 

NY529 es un programa de ahorro de dinero para estudios no solo universitarios pero también estudios vocacionales y estudios post graduados. No solo eso el dinero también se puede utilizar para emergencias familiares (pagando ciertas penalidades). Durante la actividad también aprendimos a como el dinero se puede utilizar entre hermanos. Por ejemplo si uno tiene una cuenta pero el otro no, el dinero es transferible. Y los más importante son las deducciones que recibes de impuestos por tener el dinero en la cuenta, una madre soltera puede recibir hasta $5,000 devuelta en sus impuestos con una cuenta de NY529.

¿Quieres aprender mas sobre la NY529? Pues puedes visitar la página de NY529, aquí. También tienes una línea para comunicarte 877-NYSAVES (697-2837).

Gracias al Institute of Culinary Education por la excelente comida y entretener a los chicos mientras aprendíamos sobre el programa. Gracias a Momtrends por otro súper evento.

Regresa el NY Baby Show y hay entradas gratis!

El NY Baby Show regresa este Mayo 20 y 21. Este siempre a sido el evento más grande para madres embarazadas y para padres de niños pequeños. Durante los dos días las familias, si familias, es un evento para todos, tienen la oportunidad de conocer nuevas marcas de equipo para niños. Pero no solo eso, también pueden experimentar con diferentes coches en la pista de diferentes terrenos que construyen para el evento, y también aprender sobre diferentes clases para niños.

También durante el show hay diferentes conferenciantes hablando sobre diferentes temas como la lactancia, tipos de crianza y planificación futura. Suerte para ti que me estás leyendo, tengo entradas gratis! Pero tienen que actuar rápido por que solo hay 10… Pero no se preocupen por que también tengo un código para un 50% de la entrada.

Si quieren saber más, aquí está mi entrada de el año pasado. Top 3 Discoveries at NY Baby Show! Y si quieren saber más también tengo la reseña del 2014 y 2015… Me encantan los eventos de niños y más cuando es divertido para toda la familia, creo que eso es lo mas que me gusta del NY Baby Show.

Suerte a todas y espero verlas allá.

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Checking in

So, I know I’ve been active on Facebook Live, focusing on my Spanish show Time for Cafecito (Monday, Wednesdays and Fridays at 9am on Facebook), but I wanted to check in with you, who reads me in English. I am slowly trying to separate the pages into Spanish and English but for now is a blend just my family.

Not a lot has gone down. I miss writing, I really do, but live is so much fun. The interaction with the audience is so awesome. Sometimes the broadcasts are crazy and they suck- but for the most part, we have fun. If there is anything that makes me proud about the show is that I have been able to hold on to my authentic self (sorry if this sounds to hipster for you). Is hard when you work in social media to stay true to yourself. Slowly videos start becoming productions, posts turn into short novels and pictures a work of art, comparable to those of professional photographers. It’s hard ya’ll. And is competitive AF. Which is honestly, the main reason I decided to just focus on broadcasting and doing it in my language. It’s been a real evolution to find my happy place in social media. And although it’s been a very very very slow growth I love turtles and don’t mind slow. Slow and steady wins the race, right?

Anyways just wanted to check in. Say what’s up? I’m still here. I still read messages on all the platforms, but really focusing about 90% of my energy to Facebook. To be completely honest, I have absolutely NO ENERGY to focus on 7 platforms at the same time. I truly admire those who do. I am working on a lot of small projects that take insane amount of work, including my health journey. These are also the last couple of months I will have alone with G3 so I’m trying to soak it all in. Is really about priorities. So yes, Instagram, Twitter and Snapchat will have to wait (hopefully they’ll still be around when I get back to them).

It’s almost Spring people! I can smell the spring even through the snow and ice. And I can’t wait for what the rest of the year has in store. This year has been off to a great start so of course excitement awaits.

Please fell free to reach out if you want me to write about something or translate. Also I am still working with expecting and new parents as a concierge. So if you know anyone expecting, send then this way! There’s a lot of baby shows coming up that they might be interested in.

Anyways, hope you are all having a great year and are holding up in these crazy times.